Relationship Advice

The Politics of the Wedding Invite

June 27, 2015

As you grow older, you could be forgiven for thinking you grow wiser. For assuming playground games and friendship evaluations are a thing of the past. But the reality of modern life is that just when you think you’re a real adult, society slaps [...]

Taking the Next Step – Living Together

June 22, 2015

The longer I work in the dating industry, and the more I come to understand the dating world, unfortunately the more bad dating advice I read.  Anyone can call him or herself a dating expert, and one of the reasons I was so keen to set up industry [...]

Right Time, Right Place

January 4, 2015

One of the main reasons I’ve continued this blog long past my original 30 Dates challenge, is the lessons I’ve learned first hand along the way. The thing about dating is that sometimes the lessons we learn are rather painful. And I figured if I [...]

The Facebook Relationship

December 29, 2014

As far as I’m concerned, Facebook and relationships have always been a recipe for disaster. The whole ‘in a relationship with xxx’ aspect has added a new convoluted aspect to relationship politics.  First there’s the [...]

Stop Comparing Yourself to Others!

December 23, 2014

I used to be ridiculously competitive. As a child, I was a perfectionist. It wasn’t something my parents instilled in me. It was just how I was – I always wanted to be the best. In sport, academics, art … no matter it was, I always gave things [...]

The Danger of the Open Relationship

December 8, 2014

I start this blog post by putting my hands up and admitting that I, personally, have never had an ‘open relationship’. I once tried to have a casual relationship, in a situation which could only have been casual, and failed appallingly! [...]