relationship blog

When Life Gives You Lemons …

July 6, 2014

Last week, as I moved all my worldly possessions from a tiny village in Berkshire, to the metaphorical ‘Big Smoke’, I made a comment on Twitter. It was exactly 1 year to the day that I had been ‘sacked off’ so brutally by [...]

Who Really Cares About Labels?

July 5, 2014

Those of you following the blog on Twitter may have noticed some comments over the past few weeks about the ‘Gold Star Lesbian’. She was commenting on a post by the same name – a post written by the Rock Chick about the different [...]

Everything Changes … Including You!

June 28, 2014

When you look back on your adult years, there are accepted moments of ‘change’. When you go to University, when you go travelling, when you get your first job, when you become a parent… The Student (or should I say ‘The [...]

Going in for The Kiss

June 26, 2014

No matter how many dates I go on, there’s one part of meeting a stranger that always makes me feel rather awkward. The air kiss. Do you go for one, or two?  Which way do you start?  What happens if you lean too close and clink cheekbones, or [...]

I Wanna Hold Your Hand!

June 23, 2014

It’s the simplest of PDAs.  An image which signifies love, trust and affection.  A basic act, which is surprisingly intimate. We all shake people’s hands all the time, but holding hands is a very different matter. But why should [...]

Cheating in Public

June 22, 2014

I’ve never been a great fan of social media PDAs.  When couples post hundreds of photos of themselves snogging on Facebook, or use each other’s Facebook walls to profess their love to one another. We all have mobile phones.  If you [...]

Juggling Multiple Partners – The SAC App

June 17, 2014

Multiple partners is something I’ve wanted to discuss on 30 Dates for a long time now. Not in a polygamy type of way, or even in relation to threesomes.  But with regards to juggling more than one person at the same time. Obviously, having [...]